9 Everyday Decisions That Will Make or Break Your Career

9 Everyday Decisions That Will Make or Break Your Career9 Everyday Decisions That Will Make or Break Your CareerPerspective always clears away the fog. When we look forward, the path seems uncertain and the future unpredictable. When we look back, all the dots seem to connect.The key is to never be forced to look back and regret certain decisions- and that means standing strong in the face of challenges, adversity, and stress. (In other words, staying mentally strong.)Here are nine decisions that successful people refuse to make.1. Choosing to Give in to FearBeing brave doesnt mean you arent afraid- in fact, the opposite is true. Courage without thought or meaning is simply recklessness. Brave people arent fearless theyve simply found something that matters mora to them than fear.Say youre scared to start a business. Find a reason to do that that means more creating a better future for your family, wanting to make a real difference, or hoping for a more rewarding and fulfilling life. Once you find a greater meaning, you also find courage. See fear not as something to shrink from but as something to overcome, because thats all it is.2. Choosing the Pain of Regret Over the Pain of DisciplineThe worst words you can say are If only I had...Think of all the things youve wanted to do but never have. What did you do instead? If youre like me, you dont even remember. All that time is gone, and whatever I did instead wasnt even worth remembering.Think about something you dreamed of doing five or 10 years ago but didnt work to do- and think about how good youd be today at that thing if you had. Think about all the time you wasted and can never get back.Then, today, start pushing yourself to do what you hope to do, so, five or 10 years from now, you wont look back with regret.Sure, the work is hard. Sure, the work is painful. But its a lot less painful than thinking back on what will never be.3. Choosing to elend Say I WillA boss once gave me what I thought was an impossib le task. I said, OK. Ill try.He told me trying didnt matter- as long as I didnt quit, Id finish it. Trying didnt enter into it. Persistence was all that mattered.Often we say Ill try because that gives us an out. Our ego isnt on the line. Our identity isnt on the line. After all, were just trying.Once we say I will, our perspective changes. What previously seemed insurmountable is no longer a matter of luck or chance but of time and effort and persistence.When what you want to do really matters, dont say Ill try. Say I will, and then keep that promise to yourself.4. Choosing to Not Take Lots of Small RisksYou may never create the perfect business plan, or find the perfect partners or the perfect market or the perfect location, but you can find the perfect time to start- because that time is now.Talent, experience, and connections are important, but put your all into enough new things, and some will work.Plus, after you take enough chances, over time youll grow more skilled, more exp erienced, and more connected. And that will mean that an even greater percentage of your efforts will succeed. Take enough shots, and learn from each experience, and in time youll have all the skills, knowledge, and connections you need.Ultimately, success is a numbers game its all about taking a shot, over and over and over again. The more shots you take, the more times you will succeed. So get the power of numbers on your side and take as many shots as you can.There is no guarantee of success, but when you dont take any shots at all, youre guaranteed to always fail.5. Choosing to Not MoveFamiliarity creates comfort. But comfort is often the enemy of improvement.If you have a great opportunity and the only thing holding you back is the thought of moving, move. If you want to be closer to family or friends and the only thing holding you back is the thought of moving, move. If you want to be closer to people who think and feel and act like you, move.Youll soon find cool new places to hang out. Youll soon develop new routines. Youll soon make new friends. When the fear of moving is the only thing holding you back, move. Youll meet cool new people, do cool new things, and gain a cool new perspective on your life.Besides, Thomas Wolfe was wrong If it doesnt work out, you can go home again.6. Choosing to Not Let GoBitterness, resentment, and jealousy are like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. You are the only one who loses.Life is too short to resent all the people who may have hurt you. Let hard feelings go.Then spend the energy you save cherishing the people who love you.7. Choosing to Not Say Youre SorryWe all make mistakes, so we all have things we need to apologize for words, actions, omissions, failing to step up, step in, to be there when were needed.Swallow your fear- or pride- and say youre sorry. Then youll help the other person let go of her resentment or bitterness.And then you both get to make the freshest of fresh starts, sooner i nstead of later- or instead of never.8. Choosing to Not Throw Out Your Backup PlansBackup plans can help you sleep easier at night.Backup plans can also create an easy out when times get tough.You will work a lot harder and a longer if your primary plan has to work because there is no other option. Total commitment- without a safety net- will spur you to work harder than you ever imagined possible.Then, if somehow the worst does happen (although the worst is never as bad as you think), trust that you will find a way to rebound.As long as you keep working hard and keep learning from your mistakes, you always will.9. Choosing to Be Too ProudDont be too proud to admit you made a mistake. To have big dreams. To poke fun at yourself. To ask other people for help.To fail.And to pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and go again.Instead, take pride in the fact that no matter what might happen, you will always get up and go again.That way, you never truly lose- and your dreams can never die. More From Inc.How to Disrupt Your Day By Improving Your Habits12 Inconvenient Truths That Smart People Easily Forget 14 Things Successful People Do First Thing in the MorningPhoto of man looking at laptop courtesy of Shutterstock.